How to Do Your Personal Best Under Pressure as a Photographer

How to Do Your Personal Best Under Pressure as a Photographer

How to Do Your Personal Best Under Pressure as a Photographer

How to Do Your Personal Best Under Pressure as a Photographer

December 27, 2018

December 27, 2018

Photographers

Photographers

Photographers

Helpful Strategies for Handling Photographer’s Guilt With Grace

As photographers, we often pour our hearts into every shoot. The preparation, the creative energy, and the technical know-how all go into capturing a moment. But sometimes, after the session is over and the gallery has been delivered, we face something that makes us question our work: the dreaded "photographer's guilt."

It can happen when you send a gallery to your client, and they don't respond right away. Then, when they finally do get back to you, they share their disappointment. Maybe it’s something about the way they look, the way they were posed, or even your editing style. It can feel like a punch to the gut. The truth is, it's something many photographers experience at some point.

We put so much time and effort into every session. From scouting the perfect location to setting up the lighting and choosing poses, we give our all to make sure our clients look and feel their best. And when they don't immediately respond the way we hoped, it’s easy to start questioning ourselves.

But here’s what I’ve come to realize: photographer’s guilt is normal, but it’s also something we can manage. We can learn to do our personal best under pressure, and not let our clients' reactions define our worth as photographers. Here are some tips for how to handle photographer’s guilt, and why it's important to let go of it.

1. Ask Your Clients if They Have a Preferred Side

One of the simplest ways to set your clients at ease is to ask them if they have a preferred side. This can be a game-changer when it comes to posing. It gives you insight into any insecurities they might have and allows you to better direct them in a way that flatters their features.

If your client shares that they prefer one side over the other, it doesn’t just improve their comfort—it gives you the power to create more flattering images. Knowing what your client feels good about will help you feel more confident as you pose them, and it will create more natural, authentic photos.

2. Educate Your Clients on Makeup

Makeup can be a tricky subject, especially when it comes to photos. What might look great in person can sometimes look different on camera, and some makeup products don't photograph as well as others. I always take the time to educate my clients on how their makeup may affect the final images.

For instance, matte makeup tends to photograph better than dewy or overly shiny finishes, and I always remind clients to avoid using too much powder, which can create a cakey or unnatural look. For weddings, I recommend a professional makeup artist who is experienced with photography to ensure the makeup is camera-ready.

But don’t just educate your clients beforehand—show them how their makeup looks throughout the shoot by showing them the back of your camera. This gives them a chance to adjust and helps them feel more confident about their appearance as they see the photos come to life.

3. Show Your Clients the Back of Your Camera

Speaking of the back of your camera, this is a trick that can really help ease your clients’ worries. During the session, show your clients a few images as you go along. This not only reassures them that you're capturing great moments, but it also lets them see that they look good on camera.

When they see a preview of the images, they can adjust their posture, makeup, or hair if needed—and it shows them that you’re making an effort to capture their best selves. This also gives them the opportunity to express concerns on the spot, rather than after the gallery has been delivered. It’s a way to build trust and create a more comfortable, collaborative experience.

4. Have a Strong Contract

A good contract is essential for setting expectations. It helps define your role as the photographer, your style of editing, and your boundaries. A well-crafted contract can be a great way to protect yourself from situations where clients may be unhappy with something outside of your control (like the way they look in a photo).

Make sure your contract outlines your editing style, whether you offer extensive retouching or stick to a more natural approach. This clarity up front can save you from unexpected requests later and ensure that everyone is on the same page.

5. Work With Your Clients to Fix Fixable Flaws

Sometimes, clients may point out little imperfections—like a pimple, a flyaway strand of hair, or a piece of clothing that didn’t sit quite right. If you’re able to, you can offer to make small adjustments during the editing process. Retouching an obvious flaw can go a long way in making your clients feel better about the final product.

Remember, it's all about client satisfaction. If there's something easily fixable, go ahead and adjust it. But make sure to be clear about your editing process and boundaries ahead of time to avoid misunderstandings.

6. Don’t Get Discouraged—Keep Pushing Forward

Above all, remember that photographer's guilt is a temporary feeling. It's completely natural to want to please your clients and get positive feedback, but you should never let their dissatisfaction define you as a photographer. You're doing your personal best every time you show up for a session, and that is all anyone can ask of you.

If you find yourself spiraling into self-doubt, take a moment to reflect on the big picture. Think of the clients who have loved your work, the moments you’ve captured, and how far you’ve come as a photographer. It’s easy to get caught up in one client’s opinion, but don’t let it overshadow the incredible work you're doing.

Final Thoughts

In the end, doing your personal best as a photographer doesn’t mean always being perfect or pleasing every client. It’s about staying true to your craft, your style, and your vision while also being adaptable and open to feedback. Photographer’s guilt is real, but it doesn’t have to hold you back.

By setting clear expectations, educating your clients, and remaining confident in your work, you’ll be able to face challenges head-on, keep growing, and keep producing incredible images. So, next time you feel that wave of guilt, take a deep breath and remind yourself: you are doing your personal best—and that is more than enough.

Helpful Strategies for Handling Photographer’s Guilt With Grace

As photographers, we often pour our hearts into every shoot. The preparation, the creative energy, and the technical know-how all go into capturing a moment. But sometimes, after the session is over and the gallery has been delivered, we face something that makes us question our work: the dreaded "photographer's guilt."

It can happen when you send a gallery to your client, and they don't respond right away. Then, when they finally do get back to you, they share their disappointment. Maybe it’s something about the way they look, the way they were posed, or even your editing style. It can feel like a punch to the gut. The truth is, it's something many photographers experience at some point.

We put so much time and effort into every session. From scouting the perfect location to setting up the lighting and choosing poses, we give our all to make sure our clients look and feel their best. And when they don't immediately respond the way we hoped, it’s easy to start questioning ourselves.

But here’s what I’ve come to realize: photographer’s guilt is normal, but it’s also something we can manage. We can learn to do our personal best under pressure, and not let our clients' reactions define our worth as photographers. Here are some tips for how to handle photographer’s guilt, and why it's important to let go of it.

1. Ask Your Clients if They Have a Preferred Side

One of the simplest ways to set your clients at ease is to ask them if they have a preferred side. This can be a game-changer when it comes to posing. It gives you insight into any insecurities they might have and allows you to better direct them in a way that flatters their features.

If your client shares that they prefer one side over the other, it doesn’t just improve their comfort—it gives you the power to create more flattering images. Knowing what your client feels good about will help you feel more confident as you pose them, and it will create more natural, authentic photos.

2. Educate Your Clients on Makeup

Makeup can be a tricky subject, especially when it comes to photos. What might look great in person can sometimes look different on camera, and some makeup products don't photograph as well as others. I always take the time to educate my clients on how their makeup may affect the final images.

For instance, matte makeup tends to photograph better than dewy or overly shiny finishes, and I always remind clients to avoid using too much powder, which can create a cakey or unnatural look. For weddings, I recommend a professional makeup artist who is experienced with photography to ensure the makeup is camera-ready.

But don’t just educate your clients beforehand—show them how their makeup looks throughout the shoot by showing them the back of your camera. This gives them a chance to adjust and helps them feel more confident about their appearance as they see the photos come to life.

3. Show Your Clients the Back of Your Camera

Speaking of the back of your camera, this is a trick that can really help ease your clients’ worries. During the session, show your clients a few images as you go along. This not only reassures them that you're capturing great moments, but it also lets them see that they look good on camera.

When they see a preview of the images, they can adjust their posture, makeup, or hair if needed—and it shows them that you’re making an effort to capture their best selves. This also gives them the opportunity to express concerns on the spot, rather than after the gallery has been delivered. It’s a way to build trust and create a more comfortable, collaborative experience.

4. Have a Strong Contract

A good contract is essential for setting expectations. It helps define your role as the photographer, your style of editing, and your boundaries. A well-crafted contract can be a great way to protect yourself from situations where clients may be unhappy with something outside of your control (like the way they look in a photo).

Make sure your contract outlines your editing style, whether you offer extensive retouching or stick to a more natural approach. This clarity up front can save you from unexpected requests later and ensure that everyone is on the same page.

5. Work With Your Clients to Fix Fixable Flaws

Sometimes, clients may point out little imperfections—like a pimple, a flyaway strand of hair, or a piece of clothing that didn’t sit quite right. If you’re able to, you can offer to make small adjustments during the editing process. Retouching an obvious flaw can go a long way in making your clients feel better about the final product.

Remember, it's all about client satisfaction. If there's something easily fixable, go ahead and adjust it. But make sure to be clear about your editing process and boundaries ahead of time to avoid misunderstandings.

6. Don’t Get Discouraged—Keep Pushing Forward

Above all, remember that photographer's guilt is a temporary feeling. It's completely natural to want to please your clients and get positive feedback, but you should never let their dissatisfaction define you as a photographer. You're doing your personal best every time you show up for a session, and that is all anyone can ask of you.

If you find yourself spiraling into self-doubt, take a moment to reflect on the big picture. Think of the clients who have loved your work, the moments you’ve captured, and how far you’ve come as a photographer. It’s easy to get caught up in one client’s opinion, but don’t let it overshadow the incredible work you're doing.

Final Thoughts

In the end, doing your personal best as a photographer doesn’t mean always being perfect or pleasing every client. It’s about staying true to your craft, your style, and your vision while also being adaptable and open to feedback. Photographer’s guilt is real, but it doesn’t have to hold you back.

By setting clear expectations, educating your clients, and remaining confident in your work, you’ll be able to face challenges head-on, keep growing, and keep producing incredible images. So, next time you feel that wave of guilt, take a deep breath and remind yourself: you are doing your personal best—and that is more than enough.

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With thoughtful guidance and purpose, I ensure your story is captured in a genuine, effortless way.

WHERE storytelling MEETS artistry & INTENTION

With thoughtful guidance and purpose, I ensure your story is captured in a genuine, effortless way.

WHERE storytelling MEETS artistry & INTENTION

With thoughtful guidance and purpose, I ensure your story is captured in a genuine, effortless way.

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Based in Nashville, Tennessee and serving clients around the world.

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Based in Nashville, Tennessee and serving clients around the world.

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Rebecca Musayev is a Nashville luxury photographer specializing in weddings, portraits, family sessions, events, and brand photography.


Based in Nashville, Tennessee and serving clients around the world.

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Rebecca Musayev is a Nashville luxury photographer specializing in weddings, portraits, family sessions, events, and brand photography.


Based in Nashville, Tennessee and serving clients around the world.

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